I can’t believe it’s been 8 months since my last date…This was definitely the longest I’ve gone without a date. Best part about it though is that I feel so good because I truly know myself and what I need.
He found me on Plenty of Fish and contacted me first asking: “Have you ever dug in the dirt at 14,000ft looking for aquamarine? That’s an adventure!” Right away he gets bonus points for being creative. We sent a couple of messages back and fourth and decided to do dinner tonight. I’ll call him Drummer since he plays in a band. Here’s what I learned:
Pro: He was married for 15 years (I like to hear this because to me, it shows he loved someone very much and tried to make it work but it just wasn’t meant to be).
Con: He now lives with his mother. =(
Pro: He said he can’t remember the last time he got drunk and also said he doesn’t abuse any drugs either.
Con: He said he has two kids and when I asked about them, all he said was that they were in the city…shouldn’t a father have a little bit more to say about his kids?
Pro: He bought my dinner and drinks, even after I tried to insist that I pay my half.
Pro: He’s intelligent and the conversation was easy and it flowed nicely.
Pro: He gives good hugs. =)